Kill Negative Thoughts

No, I am not writing on ‘killings’,  I am a very non-violent person, if you go on my Facebook timeline, you will find I ‘LIKE’ Mahatma Gandhi, for his application of ‘non-violence’ in political field. In my work, I come across people who suffer mainly because of ‘negative feelings’ about themselves. This demon ‘negativity’ may seem small but his reach and power is immense. It is my belief ‘negativity’ is THE major challenge of our generation. It lies at the heart of many of the diverse issues and challenges we face in our life (relationships or be it work). It is my belief that we are here on earth to learn some lessons in this birth. We are all designed to do something specific on this earth, maybe we do not know ‘what’ but for sure God didn’t make no junk(I am sure we don’t consider ourselves this)!  All the problems that we face in our lives are actually ways to learn that lesson through our will power that we have acquired through our past and present Karmas. When we begin to realize problems are not real problems but it is our ‘negativity’ in thinking we will not overcome them, then life changes radically. I am an astrologer and I have a firm belief in destiny and most important KARMA. God has sent us on this earth with our destiny manual (palmistry) for improvements. For all the problems, be it- a mean boss, low income, racial or sexual prejudice,  choosing wrong love partners and so on, if we think there is something immensely talented, POSITIVE and good in us that can handle all challenges, no matter how hard,  maybe our life will change. Try convincing yourself to stay positive, if you have the demon ‘negativity'  re-surface and come back to haunt you when you have your guard down, kill ‘it’.  It is important to have a positive frame of mind. Thoughts are very powerful. They affect our general attitude and our attitude can affect people around us. A positive attitude attracts people, while a negative attitude repels them. People tend to shy away from those who carry a negative attitude. If you see people shying away from you, you had better have a look at yourself.  Start with a smile. Smiles spread, maybe this is the creative reason behind ‘smiley’s     ‘! It is absolutely necessary to install a positive and optimistic mindset, in order to improve personal growth. There is simply nobody, simply nobody on this earth who has had no problem in his life secondly there is simply nobody who has it ALL, contrary to what you believe or how outwardly it is portrayed.

The key to improving our lives is to take conscious control of our self-talk. Negative self-talk is the prime cause for creating and maintaining demon ‘negativity’.  Our mind is always talking, statistically it has been found (my studies in Social Statistics is helpful here) most people's self-talk is roughly 95% negative. It is imperative that we put a stop to such self-destructive thinking. It is our thoughts and expectations that shape and produce what we become. The quality of our lives is a direct result of them. When we tell (find ways to convince mind) no matter how many problems are there in my life my but with positive thoughts and Karma, I can create radical changes in my life. When we work from the inside out, eventually life conditions improves as well. I ask everyone to do meditation and have even written blog on the ‘power of meditation’, meditation is one way of increasing our mental strength to overcome negativity.  God is neither a dictator nor a cruel master but ‘we’ are the creator of our destiny through our karma .....How wonderful it is to know we have the power to take the reins of our lives and assume responsibility for all our life circumstances. In my master's in social statistics I learned success n failure’s have equal probability to occur. We also learn from our failures. Just think about how many times we fell before we learned to walk.

 I understand money is important and essential in today’s world and some of you may find my philosophical talk even irritating but I also believe, we are all responsible for earning enough to take care of ourselves and those to whom we are morally obligated — but beyond this, what destiny brings is our luck and to me today, the most important concept is that of transforming life into something that pleases us. Something we can be proud of. Yours suggestion in this direction are welcomed, as well as very useful contribution.